Frequently Asked Questions

Answers to common questions about the HighRQ assessment, your reports, account and privacy, and the upcoming dating community.

Getting Started

How long does the assessment take?

About 30–60 minutes. The full assessment is the foundation for everything else — your RQ score, your reports, and (eventually) your dating community access — so it’s worth taking when you have time to focus.

How much does it cost?

The full assessment and your preliminary RQ score are completely free. From there, you can optionally upgrade to a Premium Individual Report ($19.95) or, if you’re in a relationship, a Premium Couples Compatibility Report ($49.95). The dating community will be a separate paid membership when it launches.

How do I start?

Click “Take the Test” at the top of any page, create your free account, and you’ll be taken straight into the assessment.

What is the free sample test?

Four sample questions that give you a feel for the kind of questions on the full assessment. No sign-up required. It takes about a minute.

I have a promo code. How do I use it?

Promo codes can be entered during checkout for any premium upgrade.

My therapist or coach gave me a code. How do I use it?

Practitioner codes can be applied during sign-up to link your results to your provider or unlock specific professional-tier reports.

Can I invite friends and earn rewards?

Yes — once you have an account, you’ll find your unique referral code in your profile. Share it with friends; you both earn rewards when they take the assessment.

About Your Reports

Can my partner and I take the assessment together?

Yes. Each partner takes the same assessment independently. Once both are complete, you can generate a free 10-page preliminary couples analysis or upgrade to the Premium Couples Compatibility Report ($49.95) for the full ~50-page version.

What’s in the Premium Individual Report?

A long-form personalized analysis of your full RQ profile — strengths, growth areas, the patterns that shape how you show up in every relationship in your life, and a quarterly roadmap for working on what matters most. Yours to keep for life.

What’s in the Premium Couples Compatibility Report?

A comprehensive AI-generated document that analyzes every dimension of your compatibility as a couple — dimension-by-dimension alignment, conflict-prevention playbooks, communication scripts, shared values exercises, and a quarter-by-quarter growth roadmap. It’s the kind of insight couples have historically only had access to through sustained professional support.

Can I compare compatibility with someone else?

Yes. Once you have your results, you can compare compatibility with anyone else who’s taken the assessment — a friend, a coworker, a partner, anyone. Just exchange your 6-character code.

Can I share my results on social media?

Yes — you can share your RQ score and selected highlights from your results. Full reports stay private.

What is the AI Relationship Coach?

An optional add-on that provides ongoing relationship insights based on your assessment data — compatibility breakdowns, conversation starters, and personalized prompts to apply what your report reveals.

What are badges, XP, and daily challenges?

Optional gamified elements that encourage consistent self-reflection and engagement with relationship-building practices. They’re entirely opt-in — your assessment and reports stand on their own.

Account, Privacy & Data

Is my assessment data kept private?

Yes. Your data is encrypted with 256-bit encryption and is never sold or shared with third parties.

What personal information does HighRQ collect?

We collect what’s necessary to deliver the assessment and your reports — your responses, basic profile information, and any optional information you provide. See our Privacy Policy for full details.

How do I manage or cancel a subscription?

Subscriptions can be managed at any time through your account settings.

How do notifications work?

You’ll receive notifications about new reports being ready, dating community updates (when applicable), and any AI Coach insights you’ve opted into. You can adjust notification preferences in your account settings.

The Dating Community (Coming Soon)

The HighRQ Dating Community is launching later this year. The questions below cover how it will work.

Join the Waitlist

What if I don’t qualify for the dating community?

The dating community is selective by design — we want every member to have done the work to understand themselves before they meet anyone else. If your RQ doesn’t qualify, you’ll still have full access to your assessment results, your reports, and every other part of HighRQ. And growth is part of the point: small shifts in self-awareness, communication, and emotional readiness can move your RQ over time. You’ll be able to retake the assessment after 30 days between attempts to see where you stand.

How does HighRQ use my data to find matches?

Within the dating community, your RQ profile is used to rank potential matches based on compatibility — focusing on deep alignment across the 10 dimensions of relationship behavior, not surface-level traits.

What is photo verification?

A security feature that confirms members are who they say they are. It’s part of how we keep the dating community a real, accountable space.

Can I send voice messages to my matches?

Yes — the messaging system within the dating community supports voice messages alongside text.

Are AI features available within the dating community?

Yes. Members of the dating community get AI-powered match insights, conversation starters, and compatibility explanations powered by your assessment data.